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The other troubling statement I get from my Black girlfriends regarding dating White dudes is, “You’re the type of Black girl White guys like. If there is one thing I know about heterosexual men, it is that regardless of their physical preferences, at the end of the day they just like women. I’ve seen White guys with a wide variety of Black women. A kind, smart man who moves me, might be able to rock with me, regardless of race or ethnicity. I’m not on that ridiculous color-blind train; I’m just an equal-opportunity dater. Nowadays, Van Schoor spends most of his time watching rugby, smoking and playing with his pet rottweiler, Brutus.

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In the era of social-distancing, words have become one of our best replacements for physical intimacy. That’s especially true when it comes to dirty talk, whether it’s done over the phone, sexting, or video chat. I remember my first sexual encounter with a woman like it was yesterday. I was in college and, cliché as it sounds, it just kinda happened. I’d already been sexually active, and while I felt confident in my skills with men, I wasn’t exactly sure if I could pleasure a woman.

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Communication is at the heart of every sexual connection. “You can explore sides of your sexual self you’d otherwise never feel comfortable tapping into if it wasn’t just through language.” Actually a great place for all beginners to start (especially if you’re shy) is to simply get more comfortable with platonic sexual communication, Horn says. Start talking more openly about your sex life with receptive friends. Just being more comfortable expressing your sexuality through language is a big step.

You may have been downright baffled when Hawaii senator Brian Schatz attached a picture of himself climbing a coconut tree to his X post declaring support for Harris. I find this to be problematic because everything about it is wrong. You should never date someone of a certain race because you feel exhausted by the antics of men of another race. It’s not fair to the Black woman, the White dude or Black men. Men in my family, my circle of friends and past loves attest to that.

• Whether you identify as lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, or something else, I have some tips on spicing up your sex life and having some of the best sex possible if you’re a woman who enjoys sex with women.
• Another victim described being shot in the abdomen, begging for water, before being kicked in his wound by Van Schoor.
• Meanwhile, it’s perfectly acceptable for men to be silent the entire time they’re having sex, but that shouldn’t be the case.
• Speaking of Charli XCX, you may have seen lime green-tinted pictures of Harris circulating, or the off-puttingly blurry and casual banner image of the official Harris campaign X account.
• These accounts contradict the security guard’s argument that they had been running away when he shot them.

There are things I’m into that others don’t understand, and I don’t feel the need to defend my adult preferences. The question about whether or not race play hurts or has long-term negative effects on the individuals involved lingers. We should, however, at least give people the benefit of the doubt that, as adults, they’ll take care of themselves and stick with the type of sex that gets them off and satisfies their deepest desires. Jennifer Litner, PhD, a certified sex therapist, describes sounds as one of the key senses that can heighten arousal, especially for women.

Death at the hands of law enforcement is one that has played out all too often for Black people nationwide, said Sunshine Clemons, co-founder of Black Lives Matter’s Springfield chapter. She referenced back to the deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor and Trayvon Martin at a Friday protest. “And I am enraged that another innocent Black woman had her life taken from her at the hands of a police officer,” he said. Sean Grayson, 30, was indicted Wednesday on charges of first-degree murder, aggravated battery and official misconduct. The charges come nearly two weeks after Grayson shot and killed 36-year-old Sonya Massey in her Springfield home after she had called 911 about an intruder.

Still, social media posts making the debunked assertion that Harris cannot serve as President went viral soon after Biden announced Sunday that he was dropping out of the race and would back Harris for President. Your sexual persona might not be a version of yourself you’ve ever tapped into before and can change depending on your partner, situation, or mood. These personas or fantasies also may very well be things you would never want to try out in real life. All varieties can find their voice through dirty talk, whether you tend toward the kinky and X-rated or more vanilla and tender. Courtney advises that women not limit themselves in the bed, thinking they can’t do something because there are two women involved.

One entrepreneurial businessman printed bumper stickers with pictures of the security guard. They said “I Love Louis”, next to a heart full of bullet holes. Some of the most harrowing evidence Ms Jacobson found were witness statements from people who were injured by Van Schoor, but survived.